Build a healthy self-image. Teens with high self-esteem and a positive self-image are less likely to become involved in unhealthy or abusive relationships. Work on being confident, satisfied, and secure within yourself.
Don't let a relationship become a burden. Again, trust your gut feeling. If you feel that a relationship is too intense or burdensome, or that the other person needs too much from you, step back from the relationship or break it off altogether.
Trust your family. Have a close relationship with your family so you have a built-in support system that will help you in all of your relationships.
Be informed. Learn as much as you can about abuse, dating violence, and healthy relationships, so you can help yourself -- and others, such as friends and younger siblings.
Relationships are an important part of life, and they should be special and fun. Know the warning signs of an unhealthy or abusive relationship. Avoid any relationship that doesn't feel right. Most important, learn to feel good about yourself to increase the chances of positive and healthy relationships.