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Teen Dating, Unhealthy Relationships, and Violence

 Unhealthy relationships can start early and last a lifetime. Teens often think some behaviors, like teasing and name calling are a “normal” part of a relationship. However, these behaviors can become abusive and develop into more serious forms of violence.  That is why parents and other adults need to talk to teens now about the importance of developing healthy, respectful relationships.
 
Teen dating violence is defined as the physical, sexual, psychological, or emotional violence within a dating relationship—including stalking. It can occur in person or electronically, and might occur between a current or former dating partner.
 
Unhealthy, abusive, or violent relationship behaviors can have a short and long term negative effect on a developing teen.
 
Teaching your teenager how to communicate with his/her partner, how to manage uncomfortable emotions like anger and jealousy, and how to treat others with respect are a few ways to keep relationships healthy and nonviolent. Teens receive messages about how to behave in relationships from peers, adults in their lives, and the media. All too often these examples suggest that violence in a relationship is normal, but VIOLENCE IS NEVER ACCEPTABLE.
 
It is extremely important to help your teen recognize any signs of abuse being done to them or anyone around them. In particular, sexual abuse, blackmail, or harassment which may not be as recognizable to your teen. It is most helpful to educate yourself and your teen with regard to the warning signs.
 
Dating violence and unhealthy relationships can be prevented when teens, families, and organizations work together to implement effective prevention strategies.
 
Resources: www.pamf.org/parenting-teens/sexuality/sex-abuse.html
Love is Respect Hotline:  www.loveisrespect.org
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline:  www.thehotline.org/2014/02/february-is-teen-dating-violence-awareness-and-prevention-month
 
If you or someone you know is being abused, seek help today. In an emergency, please dial 911.   For all other help, please call: Illinois Statewide Domestic Violence Helpline 877-TO END DV  ( 877-863-6338), 877-863-6339 TTY or call the WINGS 24-hour hotline at 847-221-5680.