"Survivors of any and all abuse become very good at anticipating mood of others, looks, actions, all of it in an effort to survive. Believing that if we can be agreeable, be compliant and loving, do things how they want, that we will be safe. This becomes our way of life.” Quote from Darlene Ouimet.
“It is not just the bruises on the body that hurt. It is the wounds of the heart and the scars on the mind.”
"When someone isn't treating you right, no matter how much you love them, you've got to love yourself more and walk away."
If you or someone you know is being abused, seek help today. In an emergency, please dial 911. For all other help, please call: Illinois Statewide Domestic Violence Helpline 877 TO END DV (
877-863-6338),
877-863-6339 TTY. They can direct you to the best place for your individual situation.