Domestic violence is the establishment of power and control through a pattern of coercive behaviors perpetrated by one intimate partner against another. One of those damaging types of behavior is categorized under “Emotional Abuse”. Examples are:
Criticizing and Ridiculing
Name Calling and Blaming
Withholding love and affection to punish
Treating you as a servant
Monitoring phone activity/ opening your mail
Sulking and refusing to talk or Screaming
Humiliating you in public
This type of abuse leaves no outward scars, but the inner scars are very devastating. These acts hurt and destroy self-esteem and self-worth. They can also cause severe health issues such as gastro-intestinal disorders, anxiety disorders, eating disorders, alcohol and substance misuse.
Source: Talking Points Presentation by Safe from the Start (2016)
If you or someone you know is being abused, seek help today. In an emergency, please dial 911. For all other help, please call: Illinois Statewide Domestic Violence Helpline (877) TO END DV (
877-863-6338), (877) 863-6339 TTY. They can direct you to the best place for your individual situation.